7 commandments of Relationship

1. I can not change another person.

2. The only person I can change is myself, I change for my own internal reasons.

3. Power and control are an illusion, the only power someone has over me is the power I allow them to have.

4. What you think of me is none of my business.

5. I am responsible for my successes and my failures.

6. Making you the problem does nothing more than insure I change nothing about myself.

7. IF I CHANGE NOTHING ABOUT MYSELF NOTHING CHANGES.